A Rational Girl in Irrational Times
Name game
OK, I don’t know too much about this study, but if this report is true, it’s complete hogwash. Supposedly, this recent study showed that 70 percent of Americans think women should take spouse’s name after marriage. Better still, 50% thought it should be a legal requirement. Why?
“They said the mailman would get confused and that society wouldn’t function as well if women did not change their name,” Hamilton says.
Hate to confuse the mail carrier and all.
I kept my name. Changing it was never in question – it’s been my name for my whole life. As for the kids, the boy has my name and the girl has my husband’s. Sometimes this confounds the doctor’s office but so far we really haven’t had any problems.
Will the kids be confused? Maybe, but it’s hardly the most confusing thing they’ll ever deal with. At some point, we’ll need to explain the Bush presidency.
Via: The Name Game — Feministe
I have a vague feeling I’ve complained about this before, but can’t figure out where. Guess it’s a point that bears repeating.
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about 9 months ago
Not only is this ridiculous, but the purported reason, confusing the “mailman,” reveals the inherently sexist nature of this viewpoint. Our mail carrier in Oak Park is a woman. In Ridgeway, the post office is entirely staffed by women.
about 9 months ago
Tara wanted to take my name….partly because Patterson is easier to spell than Lukaszewski. Another option is for both people to take a new last name entirely. (I doubt Tara would have agreed to Skywalker, however)
about 9 months ago
Mom: I don’t think they were particularly focused on the actual sex of whoever was delivering the mail as much as it would be some horrid tragedy if that person were even slightly confused. I left out the worst quote: “’They told us that women should lose their own identity when they marry and become a part of the man and his family. This was a reason given by many.’”
Jason: Everyone should choose their own name, but I’m confused why men with difficult-to-spell names don’t change, too.
I’ve met a few families where both partners change their name. Oddly, they never take on anything like “Lukaszewski”…
about 9 months ago
Ha! I have a friend whose husband briefly tried to convince her they should both change their names to Skywalker. Unfortunately, they didn’t.