They just use more direct (and crude) language to describe it. From the Great Stop Fucking Him post:

If your man doesn’t understand that if he’s entitled to an orgasm, you’re entitled to an unoccupied uterus — stop fucking him. If he can’t get it through his thick skull that his fleeting pleasure poses a mortal threat to you — stop fucking him. No handjobs, no blowjobs, no orgasms for him whatsoever except by his own hand, until you can be completely assured of a baby-free future, at your discretion….

Stop fucking him if he refers to birth control as your problem, then helps vote in legislation that makes it your really big fucking problem. Stop fucking him if he thinks that your inability to prevent conception should in no way prevent him from having sex with you.



Guess that’s one way to take back the night…